Get Over Your Ex

Here’s How To Get Over Your Ex … As Fast As You Can…


I know you’ve looked at other breakup advice online to get over your ex-girlfriend. and I also know it didn’t work for you (that’s why you’re here). But that’s OK. I’m going to show you WHY all those breakup tips don’t help. But before that, I want you to know that it’s not something you’re doing, or not doing. It’s more to do with the relationship advice.

I’m J, and I’m the author of The Breakup Book. Back when I went through my breakup, I was working as a computer programmer, and I figured out why nothing was working – then I figured out how to move on from the past and get on with your life.

The bizarre thing is that it involved hacking myself, and no, that’s not some weird thing with wires and machines, and no, it’s not dangerous either.

Powerful is what it is.

The 7 Hacks to Get Over an Ex…

I came up with 7 hacks to get over an ex. I’ll also explain why 7 (why more than 1) and this will explain why all those ‘broken heart tips’, as I call them, don’t (can’t) work.

Are you interested? Perhaps a little sceptical, but interested?

Let me prove it to you – it won’t cost you anything. By first explaining why nothing was working for me, then letting you know how I figured it out, and then finally telling you ‘the secret’, you’ll have clarity.

Then, all that remains is for me to actually prove it to you, and I’m willing to do this, at zero cost.

Because I know that I can help you. Period.

Unfortunately, it boils down to this…

Get Over Your Ex … or do nothing?

You have a choice to make right now (but don’t worry, it’s nothing dramatic).

You want to get over your ex. I know you do because I was once where you are now, and this thing just takes over your mind and drives you crazy.

You have the opportunity to test my theory for free. The first hack (which I will give you to try out) will take you a few minutes to do and won’t cost you anything. You don’t have to buy anything or go anywhere special.

The old stuff you’ve tried so far hasn’t worked. I’m offering you a new way, a way out. Once you nail this, you can get on with your life and never look back.

The other option is to do nothing, to continue to search for breakup help and keep watching video after video and reading article after article.

Life’s too short for that. You and I both know this.

The worst scenario would be for you to return to this website, curious to try out my hack, a week later. Or a month. That would mean that you’re still in the same spot that you are now – that you didn’t solve this problem. And that would be terribly sad. A waste of precious time… time that you can’t ever get back.

I’ve Been Here Before You And I Nailed This…

So here’s what I’m suggesting you do (take this advice from somebody who’s been through this and nailed it shut once and forever. At least give me that – I’ve been and done this (got the t-shirt, as they say), so give me a few moments and you’ll be glad you did afterwards.

Even if you don’t try out my hack (which you should, especially because I’m giving it to you) – visit my breakup training site and watch super the short video. You don’t have to sign up to anything to watch the video (it’s free). In it, you’ll learn why the old advice you’ve been reading and watching doesn’t work.

If you do nothing else but this, then at least you’ll know why and you may start to use your time more wisely. Either way, I hope you do try out my hack. It can only help you.

You’ll find it here:

That’s all from me. Good luck my friend.

To a healthy mind
J, NLP qualified author

Broken Relationship Questions

Does the book use NLP to get over an ex?

The steps and much of the content in the book is based on sound NLP principles. A big part of getting over an ex is mastering your mind to an extent. This is where NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) comes in.

Can I use NLP to get over my ex girlfriend?

Yes. NLP can help you reframe perspectives and gain great control over your conscious mind. If you want to find out more about NLP I recommend reading this entry. How to Get Over Your Ex is largely based on NLP, which I studied at Richard Bandler’s school of NLP.

How long should it take to get over an ex

Everybody is different. The one thing I can guarantee is this: it will take you longer to get over a breakup if you just let things happen to you and you ‘wait it out’, than if you get proactive and do something about it. My advice is to invest in some material to help you get over your ex. Download step 1 of my book (it’s free) and see if that’s a good fit for you.

How to get over an ex girlfriend who cheated on you

The answer is the same as the above. It also depends on how you interpret the things around you. Are they happening ‘to you’ or are they just ‘happening’? Did she cheat on you to hurt you? Or was she unfaithful because she’s ‘cheap’ and without morals? If the latter, then it has nothing to do with you. Why are you choosing to take on that burden?

How to get over an ex girlfriend who has moved on

The whole point is that you should be moving on with your life. To get over your girlfriend, you need to figure this out, or educate yourself in the ways to get over this as soon as possible. Every hour you delay is one hour gone from your life.

How to get over an ex when you see them every day

You may be in a situation where you have to see your ex. You may have it tougher than others, so you’ll need to strengthen that backbone. Arm yourself with the necessary tools to get past this. Don’t leave it to time and chance. And stop punishing yourself (download my free step 1 and get that fist step nailed and out of the way. It will help you).

How to get over an ex when you still love them

It takes 2 to Tango. If she doesn’t love you then stop wasting your time. Read the above answer as it also applies to this question.

How to get over an ex who is dating someone else

What your ex does and doesn’t do has nothing to do with you. ‘Ex’ means just that. Gone. Past. You don’t control your ex. This question is a sign of emotional immaturity. My advice is to educate yourself with the right materials.

How to get over an ex who treated you badly

Take a deep look inside your mind. Are you hurting because she treated you badly, or because you let yourself be treated badly? I think this question is rooted in a personal issue that you need to solve. Assuming that your perception of bad treatment is not skewed, your ex treated you badly because you let her treat you badly. I would start by asking myself who else are you allowing to treat you badly.

How to get over an ex who was your best friend

You need to identify whether you’re trying to get over your ex, or over a best friend. Since your question implies the latter, the answer is: in the same way that you would get over an ex best friend.

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  3. break up get over on November 11, 2010 at 12:57 am

    awesome use for NLP! Ever see the paul mckenna episode where he uses nlp to help a client to get over her ex? Seeing your site reminded me. Keep up the good work 🙂

  4. kareen on November 19, 2010 at 3:10 pm


  5. Noel on November 26, 2010 at 8:47 pm

    Jose, thanks for the second lesson. It's been a long hard road and my biggest problem is because we work together. Have you any tips I have struggled to survive at work and I have had to fight long and hard to gain a mutually respectful environment in the office as I didn't want the same circumstances of immature disrespect from us both to remain as our past relationship spiralled out of control due to this. It's calm but we avoid each other now and only talk if it's work related and now it's done professionally. Work was becoming a public flogging ground for me and that has stopped the past three weeks. I'm relieved but yes I miss the good old times. It's hard seeing that person ever day. Have you got any tips for me please.