Would you date your ex?

In my previous post I wrote about how it may not be you or something that you specifically do that’s the issue if your success with dating and relationships is below average. Particularly if you keep dating the same type of person and your relationships always fail. Assuming of course that you are to large [...] Read more »

Why do you keep breaking up?

If you’re one of those people who seem to be going nowhere fast, jumping from one relationship to another and never lasting more than a few months, then you need to check one thing before you start asking yourself if it’s you or something that you’re doing: Do you keep choosing the wrong type of [...] Read more »

How much are you worth?

I use the concept of social value when talking about relationships because it is a very useful way to measure a person. They say we are the sum of our decisions. Therefore if we make bad decisions we’re going to be at a different point than somebody who makes good decisions. Moral decisions in this [...] Read more »

3 you must never do when you breakup

Unless your relationship didn’t mean anything to you, breaking up is usually a very stressful affair. With emotions running high, tempers usually follow, and it’s always at this point – when things hang in the balance – that we can lose our composure and say and do things that we later regret. Breaking up has [...] Read more »

Is your ex to blame for everything?

This is a case of avoiding responsibility. A striking number of people who have recently split up from a relationship blame their ex for the state they find themselves in. This is a clear indication of failing to take responsibility for your own actions and their outcomes. If you’re doing this, then you need to [...] Read more »

What’s the best time of the year to break up your relationship?

Breaking up is not usually a pleasant experience, by any account. However, if you’re down in the dumps right now because your relationship failed recently, then – believe it or not – there’s a lot to be thankful for. For one, it seems that breakups (looking at google search data) may be turning out to [...] Read more »